Western society already ticks a lot of boxes you want. In a lot of Western countries people have many mental diseases. Depression and burn-out are rising in many countries. Both cause a tired, unhappy civilization that can't enjoy their luxuries.
Obviously this is just the beginning of your unhappy society. Monitor and restrict the internet, ...
One strong central government that controls education, information, and entertainment very tightly.
A religion emphasizing peace and obedience, although an extreme anti-religion stance can be substituted. Anything against the system is a sin. The government should control this, but not be seen to control it.
Several highly efficient ...