In real world, male tends be more politically powerful then female in many cultures mainly because of the advantage in physical condition. I wonder if it is possible to have a world that male and female are balance in power, where male has disadvantage in magic condition, contrast to female having disadvantage in physical condition.
In this world:
Both female and male are able to use magic, but female are generally stronger in magic, while male are generally stronger in physical power. Magic is handy but are not overwhelmingly powerful. (or in the reverse way, exaggerate the physical power? For example, human will be able to break rocks with bare hand after training?)
There is period for both men and women. While women suffer from physical unfit around once a month, men suffer from magical unfit as well. During this magical unfit, a man will find it difficult to use magic, and are easier feel tired mentally (physical condition are not affected, though). Some men will also suffer from headache, similar to stomachache of women during period. This only start from puberty.
Pregnancy affects both father and mother of the baby. While mother suffer from severe physical unfit, father will suffer from severe magical unfit. (if it feels like carry a heavy object all the time for mother, it feels like always using a easy magic for father) Also, while mother is responsible for physically protect the baby, father will be responsible for mentally protect the baby. If the father dies or faint, the baby will also die mentally. (similar to brain death, still have breath and heartbeat, but will never wake up) Sleeping is okay with care, similar to mother need to be careful not to sleep face down.
Is this enough to make male and female balance in power? If not, what have I missed? Or will it be not possible no matter what to add?