Bones are really fantastic, from an engineering point of view. We intensively use them for 80+ years with practically no big issues and they can even self repair, while whatever thing we engineer design is prone fatigue and wear.
This awesomeness doesn't come from the particular element which is used to make them, but from the peculiar way in which they are made: instead of being built once and forever, like we do with any metal beam, they are constantly demolished and reconstructed by the body cells (osteoblasts and osteoclasts), so that, effectively, your bones today are not the same bones you had one year ago.
This means that fatigue like we know in metallic alloys is less of a concern, as any microscopic damage is wiped out by this process. And by using this process we also see how the bones can self repair! And you thought that painting the Tour Eiffel or the Bay Bridge is San Francisco was a hell of a job!
You ask which other metal can be used to replace Calcium. In principle, any other element in the group 2 of periodic table, which contains
- Beryllium,
- Magnesium,
- Strontium,
- Barium,
- Radium
could show similar chemical properties.
However calcium is the fifth most abundant element in the Earth's crust, the other being
- oxygen 46%,
- silicon 28%,
- aluminum 8.2%,
- iron 5.6%,
- calcium 4.2%,
- sodium 2.5%,
- magnesium 2.4%,
- potassium 2.0%,
- titanium 0.61%
Keep in mind that calcium is also widely used in our body:
The $Ca^{2+}$ ion acts as an electrolyte and is vital to the health of the muscular, circulatory, and digestive systems; is indispensable to the building of bone; and supports synthesis and function of blood cells. For example, it regulates the contraction of muscles, nerve conduction, and the clotting of blood. As a result, intra- and extracellular calcium levels are tightly regulated by the body. Calcium can play this role because the $Ca^{2+}$ ion forms stable coordination complexes with many organic compounds, especially proteins; it also forms compounds with a wide range of solubilities, enabling the formation of the skeleton.
Therefore, your closest replacement might be magnesium, based on its electronic configuration and abundance in Earth crust. But keep in mind that if you replace calcium with magnesium you also need to redesign all the system using calcium in our bodies!